Christopher Floyd ([info]drdeleto) wrote,

More on the "Small is Beautiful" Front

It is not fashionable to say much nowadays of the advantages of the small community. We are told that we must go in for large empires and large ideas. There is one advantage, however, in the small state, the city or village, which only the wilfully blind could overlook. The man who lives in a small community lives in a much larger world. He knows much more of the fierce varieties and uncompromising divergences of men. The reason is obvious. In a large community we choose our companions. In a small community our companions are chosen for us. Thus in all extensive and highly civilized societies groups come into existence founded upon what is called sympathy, and shut out the real world more sharply than the gates of a monastery. There is nothing really narrow about the clan; the thing which is really narrow is the clique. The men of the clan live together because they all wear the same tartan or are all descended from the same sacred cow; but in their souls, by the divine luck of things, there will always be more colours than in any tartan. But the men of the clique live together because they have the same kind of soul, and their narrowness is a narrowness of spiritual coherence and contentment, like that which exists is hell. A big society exists in order to form cliques. A big society is a society for the promotion of narrowness. It is a machinery for the purpose of guarding the solitary and sensitive individual from all experience of the bitter and bracing human compromises.

If we were tomorrow morning snowed up in a street in which we live, we should step into a much larger and much wilder world than we have ever known. And it is the whole effort of the typically modern person to escape from the street in which he lives. First he invents modern hygeine and goes to Margate. Then he invents modern culture and goes to Florence. Then he invents modern imperialism and goes to Timbuktu. He goes to the fantastic borders of the earth. He pretends to shoot tigers. He almost rides on a camel. And in all this he is still essentially fleeing from the street in which he was born...

We make our friends; we make our enemies; but God makes our next-door neighbour. Hence he comes to us clad in all the careless terrors of nature; he is as strange as the stars, as reckless and indifferent as the rain. He is Man, the most terrible of beasts. That is why the old religions and the old scriptural language showed so sharp a wisdom when they spoke not of one's duty towards humanity, but one's duty towards one's neighbour. The duty towards humanity may often take the form of some choice which is personal or even pleasurable. That duty may be a hobby; it may even be dissipation. We may work in the East End because we are particularly fitted to work in the East End, or because we think we are; we may fight for the cause of international peace because we are very fond of fighting. The most monstrous martyrdom, the most repulsive experience, may be the result of choice or a kind of taste. We may be so made as to be particularly fond of lunatics or specially interested in leprosy. We may love negroes because they are black or German Socialists because they are pedantic. But we have to love our neighbour because he is there--a much more alarming reason for a much more serious operation. He is the sample of humanity which is actually given us. Precisely because he may be anybody he is everybody. He is a symbol because he is an accident.

--G.K. Chesterton, 1905.


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[info]srotu27

February 7 2007, 19:04:08 UTC 5 years ago

I like this--- I'm reading Howard's End for the first time, so this feels particularly timely to me.

Someone once made the point to me that, during the sign of peace at Mass, you shouldn't leave your pew to shake the hands of friends and relations who might not be seated in your general area. The idea was that you should find a way to be at peace with and forgiving of your actual neighbors--- the kid who keeps hitting you with his toy, the lady who's giving you a dirty look for no apparent reason, the skeevy-looking person down on the end over there who might not actually seem what you'd call clean. For whatever reason, it stuck with me, and seems like the germ of an idea similar to what Chesterton's after.

[info]drdeleto

February 7 2007, 20:00:06 UTC 5 years ago

Indeed. Good example. The applications of Chesterton's point are many. The passage was actually in an essay defending the institution of the family against certain modern (at the time) writers. Chesterton said that those who would reform or undo the family are wrong, but the common defenders of the family--who would point to it as a stabiliting, unifying force--were wrong, too. The beauty of the family (like the neighborhood) is that it's wild, disordered, and fissiparous... and, as he says, it's there and there's nothing we can do about it.

[info]srotu27

February 7 2007, 20:22:37 UTC 5 years ago

Ooh--- fissiparous. Interesting word.

I like the idea that the beauty in the family is its uncontrollability. We've got that in spades in my family. Nice to frame that as that we're an especially beautiful family. I'm usually looking for a way to control and combat it, but it really is all in how you look at it. Change your perspective and my family under control would lose most of what I love about it--- that we're opinionated and intense and deeply connected. That Chesterton--- I'm going to have to break down and actually read him for myself if he's going to be all insightful like that.

[info]drdeleto

February 7 2007, 21:07:44 UTC 5 years ago

I've got a Chesterton Reader from the local library (don't think it's in print anymore) that is just a bunch of excerpts from various books and essays. It takes a lot of stuff out of fuller context, but it also makes it digestable.

Anyway, there are passages just as insightful of these on--literally--every page. The guy was a powerhouse and it's amazing that we spend so much time in literature classes studying Emerson (right so) as the ultimate essayist and Chesterton is never so much as mentioned. (Maybe it's because he was British? Do the British study Emerson?)

[info]drdeleto

February 7 2007, 21:12:49 UTC 5 years ago

Oh, and an addendum to your thoughts on your family: What I've found myself telling my friends who have recently become parents is that the best thing about being a parent is that it forces you to become a better person. It grinds the selfishness (the most gratuitous chunks, at least) right out of you. The same can be said about participating in a family in general, but parenthood--because of the total vulnerability of the child you were responsible for making--will really put you through the ringer. And thank God for it.

[info]k8cre8

February 8 2007, 20:48:26 UTC 5 years ago

This reminds me of the comment I heard delivering Christmas goodies in the snow this year, which was "Snow is God's way of saying 'meet your neighbors.'"
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